Its Now Or Never ...

Finally writing something jo sabko samjhe . One of my staff member told me sir , articles apke bahoot acche hai but why don’t you try writing simple language jo sab samjhe jo aaj ki language ban gaye hai . I asked him hindi mae likhu kya ? he replied nahi sir apni language sms language . aaj kal sabko samjhti hai .  Fir kya tha maine bola chalo boss let’s give it a try . So everyone I really want ki hum sab ek baat samjhe jo aaj humari sabse badi problem hai … we don’t know what a women is.. How should we treat her.. aur unki kyu respect karni chaheye . AURAT , MA , SISTER aur na jaane kitne faces hai inke THE POWER OF WORLD, yes friends GIRLS- Women …..

Hum bhul chuke hai ki we are from them aaj hum hai tho inse hai . inki wajha se hai . Ek ma he hai jiske hone se hum hai .  ek aurat he hai jiske saath se hum hai .. par kya hum respect karte hai ? value dete hai ? inke hak inhe dete hai ? I would say .. Sir jhuka kar nahi ……. Nahi dete hum…. Aaj hum bhul gaye hai , what they mean to us in reality. Sorry to say… We are the reason for this .. humari wajha se he ho raha hai ye sab…..
aaj ki he baat hai I was on my way to temple in my car. Raste mae dekha maine  ek couple khada tha . saath mae thea  tho I thought ghumne aaye hounge . just madir tha side mae jaha I was going .. car park keya aur gaadi se utar kar dekha maine tho 2 minute mae sudden sounds … itni galiyo ki awaaj ki kya kahu . bahoot disturbing words thea . guess what couple apas mae lad rahe thea . the boy was shouting like he will kill her from his words only . and jo words bol raha tha wo shayad mae likh nahi sakta. While writing this tears were rolling from my eyes .sab log thea waha tamasha dekh rahe thea. And that boy itne log thea tho bhi he was abusing her .reason jo unki bata se samjhme aa raha tha wo ye tha ki  ladka ladki ko apne hisaab se rakhna chahta tha . ladki ne bas itna bola use ki please mujhe tumhari zarurat hai mere paas raho . par ladka tho mere dost nahi hai kya . tu chup raha kar tujhe samjhta nahi hai kya. Tu bewakuf hai . mae hu tho teri izaat hai . and tujhe jaise bolu waise reh . ladki ki dari huye awaaz se ye samjh aa raha tha wo sirf itna bol rahe thi maine sab chod kar tujhe apnaya . aaj jab mujhe zarurat hai tho tere leye sab hai mae nahi . ladke ne use mara can you imagine guys . aur bola mae tujhe aise kapde pehne ko isleye bolta hoe kyuki tu ladki hai . aur mae jaise bhi raho tu had mae reh tune waqt deya tho ehsaan nahi keya and all . maine short mae likha hai details abusing thea .aur shocking ye tha sab dekh rahe thea koi kuch bol nahi raha tha . firse ladke ne use ek thapad mara bas fhir kya tha yaar dekha nahi gaya mujhse gaya uske paas ek rakh kar deya uske. I told him directly ghar jakar ladki k papa k samne haath laga use dum hai tho . agar unhone tujhe jinda choda tho akar mujhe mar dena . mae mar kha lounga tujhse.  I dint wanted ki mae hero banu ya aisa kuch . I stood kyuki nahi dekha gaya and result samne tha . sab log ladke ko marne lage .. kisi tarah rooka sabko aur ladke ko samjhaya . malum hai tera personal issue hai but ye koi way nahi hai . jis tarah tu treat kar raha hai use usme pyaar kaha dekh raha hai . aur point agar tere saath ka hai tho wo tujhse tera saath mang rahe hai kya galat hai usme . pyaar ka matlab pata kar jakar fhir hak jama .  mera maksat ye tha ki wo ladka thoda tho samjhe . wo ladki mujhe kahe galat nahi lagi . zarurat k waqt insaan ussi se madad mangta hai jisse wo chahta hai aur agar wo uski madad na kaare aur wo jo mange wo na de tho dil tut jata hai . wo ladki ne rote huye sabke samne kaha bhaiya pata hai maine sab choda apni duniya apna sab kyuki mae pyaar karti thi isse . and wo ladke ne bola ehsaan nahi karti thi . mujhe itna gussa aya maine ek aur rakh k deya aur bola nikal ja yaha se warna tujhe mera dusra face dekhega akal nahi hai tujhme . wo ladka bike se nikal gaya . maine stand leya uska result tha sabne reaction dekhaya I was happy ki atleast wo ladki ne ye kaha bhaiya thanks a lot for being there . but dil se bura laga uske leye . pyaar  karna asaan hai nibhaana mushkil aur agar pyaar ka matlab he nahi samjha tho pyaar kis naam ka . maine uss ladki ko bas ye kaha apne uske leye sab chodo sabkuch keya jab zarurat thi khade rahe . par apke dil mae ye umeed thi ki wo bhi rahega jab apko zarurat hogi . par dekho jo insaan apko sabke samne itna bol raha hai wo kya apke layak hai apne pyaar keya par wo uss layak nahi tha . pyaar mae umeed mat rakho . kyuki umeed se pyaar nahi hota . shayad use samjha ho uski aankhon mae dard tha . aur sir se blood aa raha tha ladke ne mara tha . but uske jaane k baadh uss ladke ko maine nahi choda uski gaadi k number yaad tha mujhe police complain ki abhi jail mae hai wo . pata nahi sahe keya ki galat but banta hai uske saath ye ..
guys see relationship he nahi aur bhi bahoot se examples hai . mom ki respect sister ki par hum nahi karte hai respect . par hume badalna hoga . kyuki ye jaha ye asmaan ye dharti sabki hai . every one can breath live . kisi ki permission ki zarurrat nahi hai . everyone can walk sir utha kar .chup mat raho samjho aur samjhao sabko . change chaheye tho khud ko badlo . guys please stand . its now or never . humari duniya inse hai sach mae Girl is  Goddess ……
Please samjho/…….. high time … now or never…. Take stand …

-          Shivam Sharma ( Editor & Co Owner ) Canners International 

Women Life In India ( Hell Or Heaven )

The condition of women in India has always been a matter of grave concern. Since the past several centuries, the women of India were never given equal status and opportunities as compared to that of their male counterparts. The patriarchal nature of Indian society, which even though gives respect to women as they are our mothers and sisters, has greatly hampered both the independence as well as the safety of women.

One of the main reasons of violence against women is the mentality which deems women inferior of men and merely limits their importance to the maintenance of the household, the upbringing of children and pleasing their husbands and serving other members of the family.

Even in today's times of modernization of society, many working women are still subjected to immense pressure to shoulder the dual responsibility of a housewife and a working woman simultaneously with little or no help from their husbands.

It is the same mentality which, some generations ago, used to think of women as mere objects of attaining sexual pleasure and a servant of the husband, who was considered "parameshwar" which literally translates to "supreme God".

Times have changed but the mentality still prevails in the mindsets of several narrow minded Indians.

Although it was a most heinous case of cruelty, it is ironical to note that such incidents are not actually rare in our country. There are several such cases happening everyday where females (from infants to old ladies, from upper middle class women in metro cities to dalit women in villages .the list can be endless) are subjected to horrendous sexual torture by lustful men who are, in most cases, known to the victims. One cannot generalize the victims or those guilty of sexual crimes in India; they come from all strata of society and from every part of India and belong to all the age groups.

Making stringent laws is necessary to ensure that the guilty in such cases get the punishment that they deserve and don't walk freely due to the weak provisions or loopholes of the existing laws. But asserting that stringent laws will be able to curb male sexual overdrive in India cannot be justified.

Unlike the cases of sexual molestation registered in police stations, there is a large portion of women in India who are subjected to rape and other forms of sexual assault on a daily basis and still their cases go unnoticed.

These women are the unfortunate wives who have to indulge in sexual intercourse with their husbands even if they don't want to (non-consensual sex is nothing but rape). They don't actually have a say in front of their husbands when it comes to sex, they have to comply with the needs and demands of their husbands.

Another category of such women who are bound to indulge in sexual activities against their wishes are the hundreds of thousands of sex workers in India who are visited by numerous men everyday and even tortured by many of their clients. They are compelled to do as their clients say as they have no other means of feeding themselves and their children other than selling their bodies to the sex-hungry men of India.

If we take account of all these women and then collectively see the scenario of sexual crimes against women, it can be easily seen that stringent laws alone cannot do much. What really needs to be done is the moral overhauling of the minds of the masses by means of education and awareness.

Strong and stringent laws are definitely necessary as the existing laws have proved to be inefficient in ensuring swift justice and appropriate punishment to the guilty. But the actual need of the hour is a revolutionary change in the mindsets and conscience of Indian men so that they stop seeing women as objects of sexual pleasure.

 Lets stand and make difference, we know things are wrong but we don't react on it  lets do it ... lets stand .. Its Now Or Never ...... We The Youth Can Make Difference.... Lets Change The Bad Side Of Indian Culture.. Lets Live ... Let All Live Freely ...

 - Shivam Sharma ( Editor & Co Owner Canners International )